Have You Been Seeking Validation In All The Wrong Places?

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We go through life with a sense of identity that is “me.” That identity then becomes known to our friends and families. It becomes known to our spouse or significant other. It becomes known in our careers.

But deep down inside – in the soul – there’s something else. A child that has seen too much, too soon. A child that had no choice but to grow up before their time. A child that needs to heal.

If you’re in a position right now where you’ve become the very thing you swore you’d never be, Tommy Breedlove says it’s not too late to start turning things around.

When he was at his lowest point was the peak of his financial and social success, living a ‘Wolf of Wallstreet’ lifestyle, Tommy came to realise that he was completely unhappy with the direction his life was going. Through deep inner work, Tommy rediscovered the childhood trauma he had been hiding from. Tommy’s inner child was manifesting as Millionaire Playboy Businessman because it was the only way Tommy could feel good enough.

After taking a deep dive into his life story and processing through his past, Tommy started helping others heal as well. To Tommy (and his clients), it all comes down to doing the deep work in meditation, journaling and self-reflection, in order to heal the parts of you that are causing so much pain. There is freedom in knowing that, at any moment, you’re only one decision away from a totally different life.

The first step to getting free from the past is becoming aware of what patterns are holding you back. Tommy wants people to know that it doesn’t have to be the way it is now – but first, they have to do the work. Validation can come from many places, but according to Tommy it shouldn’t be coming from your parents…or your friends…or your lovers…or your job…or your bank account…or anything else except yourself.

This process won’t be overnight, but it doesn’t have to take a long time either! Tommy recommends taking one small action every day in the direction of your desired future. In 365 days, you will be living an entirely different life. You may even go from being someone you hate to someone you admire. Because, at the core, living a legendary life is all about falling in love with yourself and becoming your own best friend.

In order to do the deep work, Tommy recommends daily meditation, journaling, and self-reflection. This is the foundation of personal growth and it’s where you’ll find the healing you need to create a new life for yourself. It’s not easy, but it is worth it! And you don’t have to do it alone. There are plenty of people out there who want to help you become your best self. But first, you have to be ready to make a change.

This is the moment you’ve been waiting for. It’s time to put away any excuses and take responsibility for everything in your life – good and bad. No more wasted life! No more blaming others or feeling sorry for yourself. You can’t change what you refuse to confront, so stop making ‘life happens’ a daily mantra and start doing the work that will lead you down the road to true healing and happiness!

A Legendary Life is not about being selfish…it’s about becoming the best version of yourself that you can be, so you can give back to those you cherish most in your life. If you’re struggling with the same problems day in and day out, there’s no better time than now to dig deep, take control of your own destiny, and live life on your own terms.

To hear some of Tommy’s amazing stories and more about his journey, listen to the It’s More Than Money episode to discover how a legendary life is possible for everyone.

Disclaimer: The information in this article is general in nature and does not take into account your personal circumstances, financial needs or objectives. Before acting on any of the information you should consider the appropriateness of the relevant product having regard to your objectives, financial situation and needs. In particular, you should seek independent financial advice and read the relevant Product Disclosure Statement or other offer document prior to acting on any financial product or implementing any financial strategy.

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